I feel like everything Amber has to say here is SO IMPORTANT. Double emphasis on the importance. I just have to share some of her wisdom because I want to remember it forever.
Lesson number two: Boys are never going to treat you exactly how you imagine they should. It's a very rare thing to find a boy in a high school or even college relationship who is willing to spend loads of money on a girl no matter how much he loves her. It is also very uncommon to find a boy who is a great texter who isn't also a tool with an underhand motive. If your boy isn't texting you back very fast or sometimes hits you with the reads or sometimes seems semi uninterested in the conversation IT WILL BE OKAY. He's a guy. This is not however excusing BAD behavior of men. If anything he is doing is hurtful or damaging to yourself or relationship, leave. It doesn't matter how he's showing his love if that is how he shows his frustration.
Lesson number three: He probably won't notice your super cute hair you just got done at a really fancy salon. Once again. He's a guy. He's oblivious.
Lesson number four: Boys will tell you they like you just so they can make out with you. It's deceptive and rude and works nearly every time. Learn to recognize the difference between a hook up "I have a crush on you" and a real life crush
1) hook ups will admit to "crushing on you" within a few days and often use more emojis than a real man
2) hook ups will most likely only tell you what you want to hear if it's past 10 pm and maybe if you're lucky 9 pm
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